19:31:45 From Louis Castro : Good Evening all 19:32:03 From Ibrahim Osman : Hello 19:32:05 From Rahina Akram to Hosts and panelists : Good evening everyone 19:32:16 From Ivica Gruban to Hosts and panelists : Hello 19:33:00 From Donald Rollock to Hosts and panelists : How do we sign in? 19:33:13 From Joe Danbusky to Hosts and panelists : tell them sit down; get another parent 19:33:56 From Tom Murphy to Donald Rollock and all panelists : Only can watch and listen... we will open up for questions later. 19:36:44 From Donald Rollock to Hosts and panelists : amen 19:38:24 From Ibrahim Osman to Hosts and panelists : Is everyone on mute? 19:38:52 From Alan Starost to Ibrahim Osman and all panelists : yes 19:39:28 From Donald Rollock to Hosts and panelists : What about a Knights of Columbus 19:39:44 From Ibrahim Osman to Hosts and panelists : is the meeting for everyone or only board member ? 19:40:55 From Neal Smith : he has already assigned games. I got an arbiter notification earlier. 19:43:07 From Alan Starost to Ibrahim Osman and all panelists : Only can watch and listen... we will open up for questions later. 19:43:35 From Ibrahim Osman : Ok great thank you Aan 19:43:49 From Jordan Hirsch : He already started 19:43:53 From Edward Risov to Hosts and panelists : Marty, I've been handing out recruiting cards at a lot of my games. But what about creating weather-resilient Posters , something like "We want YOU to become a referee" (with appropriate picture :-) ) and a QR code to recruiting web link. At the least, we could have a few of these and bring them with us to the tournaments. At most, we could hand one to each club and ask them to tie it to a fence at their field 19:49:08 From John Hofmann III to Hosts and panelists : What’s the fb page titled ? 19:51:10 From Howard Roizman to Hosts and panelists : Can you provide Facebook link 19:51:30 From Pete Mitko : When do we have field session for todays zoom meeting participants? My son is on it. 19:51:32 From G K to Hosts and panelists : Message for EJ: please, advise about Game # 2146480, 5/21/2022 Sat 4:00 PM, Walt Whitman High School, 1, Boys Soccer & U-19-LIC Platinum 2x45. The coach confirmed this game has been cancelled but it's still in my Arbiter. Please, let me know if I need to run this one through someone else . Thanks in advanced. 19:51:54 From Scott Abel to Hosts and panelists : https://www.facebook.com/groups/233221982085908 19:55:25 From Joe Danbusky to Hosts and panelists : Cameras are PR for a potential upcoming D1 scholarship 19:56:03 From Donald Rollock to Hosts and panelists : Ole Red Card Don is here 19:57:20 From G K to Hosts and panelists : Question: I assume coaches evaluate referees after each game. Can we get their aggregated report at the end of the season? 19:59:43 From Tom Murphy to G K and all panelists : Only LIJSL do referee evaluations 20:00:03 From Joe Danbusky to Hosts and panelists : field sessions start again after Jul 1at. No dates, times, locations yet 20:00:07 From Tom Murphy to G K and all panelists : Can't really aggregate them as there are no referee names 20:03:33 From Matthew Duran to Hosts and panelists : Tom’s keyboard is loud…Lol 20:05:47 From jon schweikert : can everyone not talking go on mute 20:08:07 From Edward Risov to Hosts and panelists : Cathy, have you tried Woodland Middle school for in-person meeting ? They've been hosting our NCLOA ( lacrosse ) meetings this year 20:12:42 From Warren Pugach : SO TRUE. Set a good tone, treat everyone with respect and you will get back the same. They understand - we are all human if you communicate with them..... 20:12:53 From John Grasser : who do I contact to assess a new official ? 20:14:09 From John Grasser : access 20:15:52 From Christopher Albanese : can we pop up both coaches info in the scheduler part of Arbiter and not have to search LIST fornthe away coach? 20:16:36 From Chris Kit : who do you contact about getting my 2022 referee patch. I am a new referee in April 6 class and still have not received 20:16:43 From Tom Murphy : That is an Arbiter thing.... we can ask and have asked but NCAA always is first 20:16:51 From Matthew Duran to Hosts and panelists : Shouldn’t have to contact the visiting coach 20:18:22 From Matthew Cerniglia to Hosts and panelists : If I am unsure if I am in good standings, is there a way in which I can check that? (I am a younger referee and am trying to progress and do higher games and would like to be in the best standings possible.) 20:18:47 From Cheryl Aronson : Apparently I've only been sending messages to Alan lol 20:19:23 From Cheryl Aronson : Send requests for mentoring to jmaio@lisoccerrefs.org 20:19:44 From Joe Danbusky to Hosts and panelists : wmail Secetary@enysreferee,org 20:20:29 From Jean-Marie Maio to Matthew Cerniglia and all panelists : You can check your profile in Arbiter for your status and themn contact EJ at the office. 20:21:21 From Alan Starost to Matthew Cerniglia and all panelists : Matthew, You are paid up with dues. 20:21:23 From Cheryl Aronson : Chris, why do you need the away coaches information? 20:22:15 From Matthew Cerniglia to Hosts and panelists : Thank you Mrs. Maio and Mr. Starost. 20:22:27 From Christopher Albanese : I give my info to both home and away coach. As a coach, I want that info to complete the game sheet. 20:23:05 From Arthur Adams to Hosts and panelists : Only thing I’ve ever sent off a younger kid for, or would have sent off a younger kid for is violent conduct. If you’re a new referee, and a coach or parent gives you a hard time, don’t engage them with arguing. Stick to your guns, be respectful, learn from the experience and make your report. You’re a better referee with each one of these things you experience, because you never forget the things that you could have perhaps handled better. 20:23:05 From Cheryl Aronson : You should get that info at the game from the roster. 20:23:57 From Cheryl Aronson : During check in you can give your info to the away coach as well 20:24:04 From Alan Starost to John Grasser and all panelists : Chris, Contact Jean-marie about assessing and mentoring referees. Her email is on the website 20:24:22 From Eugene O'Neill to Hosts and panelists : Because if I have a problem with the game I should be able to reach out to both coaches immediately. 20:24:47 From Alan Starost to Eugene O'Neill and all panelists : I thought you weren't coming 20:24:53 From jon schweikert : the screen isn't changing and is small 20:25:01 From Neal Smith : is his slides not progressing. all I see is the title page. 20:25:03 From Mark Rocco : only seeing title slide 20:25:07 From Mark Kober to Hosts and panelists : the screen is not changing 20:25:08 From Christopher Albanese : I always send them the CR's info so they can complete their sheet as well. Share the info 20:25:09 From richard eisenberg : You are not sharing anything but the cover page 20:25:12 From Rick Raschke : JOhn, your screen is not advancing 20:25:21 From Mark Kober to Hosts and panelists : go back to full screen 20:25:44 From Ian Trendel : no 20:25:44 From Mark Kober to Hosts and panelists : no 20:25:51 From Jordan McDonald to Hosts and panelists : Share screen vs sharing the PowerPoint window 20:25:53 From Cheryl Aronson : Eugene, You can do that, but that isn't really how we do things. So if you choose to do it that way, you will need to click on each coach seperately 20:26:05 From Ilyas Guvenilir to Hosts and panelists : I think you have to click on the next slide 20:26:55 From Sean McPhillips to Hosts and panelists : While in Ireland a couple of weeks ago I visited my old football club I played with many years ago. While walking around the grounds which consist of 6 pitches they have large notices on the back of players and coaches dugouts advising parents to respect the officials and players on the pitch. I sent Cathy a photo today of the wording and I believe if we had similar signs on all the pitches on LI it just might make these folks think twice before the go nuts berating and screaming at officials. Regards Seán McPhillips 20:26:59 From Christopher Albanese : It's an extra few minutes. (assuming their info is in the system) No big. 20:27:50 From George Muench to Hosts and panelists : Can Tom mute please 20:27:51 From Jason Peck : In our next negotiations we should ask for a little more money for games that can't end in a tie such as state cup. Having to repeatedly stick around an extra 40 minutes to an hour for no extra pay gets annoying fast. 20:28:05 From Neal Smith : please mute your mic if you ate not talking. 20:28:29 From Bruce Vatske to Hosts and panelists : We can hear someone typing! Loudly! 20:30:07 From Matthew Duran to Hosts and panelists : Chris As the home coach I don’t think you should be send the visiting coach the CR info. They can get that at the field. Also don’t try to wear 2 hats at the same time. 20:30:22 From Eugene O'Neill to Hosts and panelists : If a player is defending himself in a fight, does he get a red card too? 20:31:36 From Arthur Adams : In my experience NOTHING good ever comes from directly addressing parents/spectators. Fully agree. 20:31:47 From Jean-Marie Maio to Matthew Cerniglia and all panelists : gene 20:31:59 From Jean-Marie Maio to Matthew Cerniglia and all panelists : If he throws a punch, yes. 20:33:57 From JASON SILVER : Jason, I agree with you. I had a State Cup game at HOTA and I almost needed to go to 2x15 full OT and I had a 330 EDP at Mitchel and I almost lost that EDP game.... 20:34:13 From Mark Kober to Hosts and panelists : mute 20:34:58 From Eugene O'Neill to Hosts and panelists : do you walk to the coach to address the coach or may you speak from ten yards away? 20:36:36 From Cheryl Aronson : Don't leave the field to address the coach. But walk over close enough so he can hear you. Then stand there and look annoyed while the coach has to walk over and yell at his parents lol 20:37:14 From Jean-Marie Maio to Matthew Cerniglia and all panelists : I would walk to the coach. If you are doing mucho games then maybe you could allow the coach come to you 20:38:39 From John Hofmann III to Hosts and panelists : I haven’t been doing this to long but the best thing to do is ignore the parents. If you don’t acknowledge them, it makes them look terrible. It’s worked for me plenty of times…… 20:39:44 From Jean-Marie Maio to Matthew Cerniglia and all panelists : As Alan said, you should develop a thick skin, however, any time it interferes with your ability to officiate the game or your ARs or even the players, then you must deal with it. 20:39:50 From Cheryl Aronson : Some of our referees are minors, we cannot allow that type of behavior. And ignoring makes them think this is acceptable behavior. You must shut it down right away, because the next referee may be a 16 year old kid. 20:41:05 From Jean-Marie Maio : As Alan said, you should develop a thick skin, however, any time it interferes with your ability to officiate the game or your ARs or even the players, then you must deal with it. 20:41:18 From John Hofmann III to Hosts and panelists : Okay, I use reverse psychology it usually shuts them up if they aren’t acknowledged. But I understand your point as well…. 20:43:40 From richard eisenberg : It also could be giving the finger, making eye glass signs to a referee intimating they cannot see, making fun of the ref in a number of ways with their players. players on the field following behind a ref when they cannot see what is occurring behind them. 20:44:41 From Edward Risov : How's a "I'll see you in the parking lot" threat from parents is grounds for game termination, but from a coach is "just" referee abuse? Or did I misunderstand something ? 20:48:03 From Donald Rollock to Hosts and panelists : Call the police 20:49:17 From Donald Rollock to Hosts and panelists : the recent fights and abuse are the result of inaction on our part 20:50:42 From Cheryl Aronson : I follow OFFSIDE on facebook, this is happening all over the country. And not just in soccer. Just today they posted a video where umpires were assaulted in the parking lot after the game. 20:51:48 From Louis Castro : As the CR what do I do when the match has ended and I have issues on route to the parking lot? 20:52:30 From Cheryl Aronson : If you feel unsafe please get to your car or someplace safe and call the police. 20:53:12 From Neal Smith : does the disciplinary board give follow up on the red card reports we put in? 20:53:18 From Cheryl Aronson : If a coach, player or spectator is speaking inappropriately to you, you can still issue a red card, and make sure you put all of this in your report 20:53:19 From Matthew Duran to Hosts and panelists : Start recording for your safety, get in your vehicle and leave if you can, or call the police 20:53:23 From Jean-Marie Maio : send a supplemental to the office for anything that happens at the venue, even after the game 20:55:30 From Leonard Jenkins : Here, Here!! 20:55:50 From Vito Cassara to Hosts and panelists : Leagues are too lenient. Make punishment detrimental for coaches. $$$ and min 6 game ban 20:56:33 From Eugene O'Neill to Hosts and panelists : I promise them that if they get into the center I will show up for their first five games 20:56:46 From Donald Rollock to Hosts and panelists : Louis, call the police and warn them 20:56:50 From Arthur Adams : Hope this is not going to be taken the wrong way. What does it matter what the league does with our red card and report? It’s up to the league to carry out suspension or not— it shouldn’t matter to us how they handle it. If that’s your concern then you’re taking it personally and in a way, trying to be a part of the competition aspect of the match, which we are not. Just do our job and do it well. Let the league handle carrying out any further punishment. 20:58:10 From Donald Rollock to Hosts and panelists : I just handled Carle Place v. East Meadow who had a fight and required the police. They sent me, Red Card Don, no problems, quiet game 20:58:32 From Eugene O'Neill to Hosts and panelists : Justice requires that all parties know what's being done with my decisions. If we have no feed back, it's a lonely twilight zone. 20:58:36 From Donald Rollock to Hosts and panelists : I do not tolerate abuse or nonsense 20:59:04 From Christopher Albanese : Field Marshalls like at High School games? 21:00:30 From Donald Rollock : I just handled Carle Place v. East Meadow who had a fight the last time they played. They sent me, Red Card Don, not a peep from the coaches, parents, or players. Quiet game 21:00:53 From Donald Rollock : I don’t tolerate it 21:02:33 From Donald Rollock : Assault me, then you can enjoy going to jail. 21:02:35 From Louis Castro : Carle Place I have had issues with that Club as well 21:04:08 From Donald Rollock : set the tone at lineup check 21:04:48 From Eugene O'Neill : I'm doing this for the kids and the next referee. 21:05:01 From Bruce Vatske to Hosts and panelists : Can you please review where parents and players are to set up? 21:05:45 From Joe Danbusky to Hosts and panelists : Amen, counselor! 21:06:12 From Donald Rollock : Madam President, you are awesome 21:07:50 From Donald Rollock : You need to vent but get perspective 21:09:12 From Joe Danbusky to Hosts and panelists : When you think you've seen it all, you'll see something else😁⚽ 21:09:46 From Alan Starost to Hosts and panelists : Do we want to open up the mics to people who want to ask questions? 21:10:16 From Donald Rollock : parents on one side, teams on the other 21:10:42 From Arthur Adams : Yeah but there are certain fields that seem to offer exceptions. So it’s a tough thing to enforce. 21:10:42 From jon schweikert : westbrook has both team benches on the same side 21:10:45 From Brian Dunn to Hosts and panelists : I met a coach a few weeks ago who told me he was going to write up the ref for being lazy. I said let me give you some context he had 5 games on Saturday this is his third today it is Ramadan and he is fasting and he got injured yesterday and still came out to ref today so you had a game. He said thanks for the info I have a lot more respect for him now 21:10:50 From Donald Rollock : Blame it on substitutions 21:10:53 From Joe Danbusky to Hosts and panelists : teams and officials - one field; spectators - somewhere else 21:11:05 From Brian Dunn to Hosts and panelists : This is the nonsense you will have to deal with from some ignorant coaches 21:11:41 From Williams Meza : is mbappe stay in PSG or go to Madrid? 21:11:43 From Donald Rollock : Knights of Columbus 21:11:53 From John Sengelaub to Hosts and panelists : Hi Brian! 21:12:13 From richard eisenberg : Esat Meadow HS has allowed meetings 21:12:17 From Donald Rollock to Hosts and panelists : Knights of Columbus 21:12:23 From Edward Law to Hosts and panelists : Mount Sinai Heritage Center 21:12:32 From Pete Mitko : Woodland is elementary school in Hicksville 21:12:48 From Joe Danbusky to Hosts and panelists : How many members expected for face-to-face meeting? 21:14:02 From Edward Risov to Hosts and panelists : 690 Wenwood Dr, East Meadow, NY 11554 21:14:06 From Edward Risov to Hosts and panelists : Woodland middle 21:14:57 From Rene Castro to Hosts and panelists : Thank for the Miting i living goin yo work nao thank 21:15:13 From Joe Danbusky to Hosts and panelists : I can speak with Town of North Hempstead Community Ctr in NHP. Room holds about 220 people 21:17:09 From Ibrahim Osman : Woodland is middle school in East Meadow 21:20:59 From Christopher Albanese : But did Mario keep the AR money? 21:21:17 From Michael Grady to Hosts and panelists : Should be Fee and a 1/2 for a game with only a CR as they need to cover more field and make more calls. Baseball gets it if only 1 umpire shows. 21:22:11 From richard eisenberg : That is another issue. NYCSL constantly changes game times expecting us to adjust including game day.. Folks set their schedules based on game schedules. They should not be able to make game changes once it is submitted. 21:22:13 From Joe Danbusky to Hosts and panelists : signing off 21:22:22 From Christopher Albanese : I emailed my AR's. No response. My son said, text them. no one emails any more. they replied in 5 minutes 21:22:31 From Jason Peck : I got sent two 2022 badges, score! 21:22:35 From Brian Dunn to Hosts and panelists : Ussoccer doesn’t have anyone in the office either they said so that’s why they didn’t send badges out as well 21:23:15 From Brian Dunn to Hosts and panelists : They haven’t sent me a badge for 3 years and told me to contact eny and ask for any extra badge they have so I can ref 21:25:16 From Aidan Byrne to Hosts and panelists : thanks 21:25:56 From Cheryl Aronson : How does Brian Dunn not have a badge!!!! lol 21:26:07 From Mark Pappas to Hosts and panelists : Plainview library? 21:26:47 From Ibrahim Osman : Jason can I have one please 21:27:35 From Ilyas Guvenilir to Hosts and panelists : Where do you put the score for edp games ? 21:27:59 From Nick Todaro to Hosts and panelists : If we end up doing the next meeting in person, we should still have it available online as well if possible for referees who are not able to attend in person 21:28:12 From George Muench : They can make the same ones that the political candidates do 21:29:27 From Cheryl Aronson to Ilyas Guvenilir and all panelists : There is a QR code at the top of the game report. Just point your camera on it a link will open to that game report 21:30:47 From George Muench : Hey Marty, business card V2? 21:30:56 From jon schweikert : you can put them on marty's card back 21:31:53 From Robert Romano : put the QR codes on the back of red cards 21:32:11 From Jean-Marie Maio : Nick I asked for that at the mandatory meeting but was told it was a no go. 21:32:32 From Christopher Albanese : That's only at Hewlett.... 21:32:42 From Danny LaVardera : Here's a link for free qr code generator. https://www.qr-code-generator.com/free-generator/?utm_source=google_c&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=en_top_kw&utm_content=qr_generator_exact&utm_term=qr-code-generator_e&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI1_DOqPfs9wIVgYJbCh32iQBPEAAYASAAEgJq7vD_BwE 21:32:57 From Christopher Albanese : I always take care of my refs ..... 21:34:49 From Ilyas Guvenilir to Hosts and panelists : We should go to church after the service, do the meeting 21:36:42 From Robert Romano : HI Cathy...I mentioned to you in December I could get the Seaford Fire Department for $240, which includes non alcoholic beverages. I would need some advanced notice to see if it's available